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Has a woman ever disrespected you?

Maybe her patronizing words fret a hole deep into your heart.

Perhaps she stepped on your foot with one of her stilettos. But instead of apologizing, she carped, “You almost ruined my heel with your foot, you idiot.”

Maybe she showed up an hour late for your date with her.

Or possibly something else.

Did you just stand there like dumb dear in headlights?

Did you try even harder to win her over?

Did you walk away hunchbacked and long-faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of your deflated ego?

Alas, these responses do nothing to trigger attract and demand the respect you deserve.

In a minute, I’m going to share a secret for turning a woman’s disrespectful behavior into attraction.

Before I reveal this secret to you, I want to delve into a little male-female psychology.

The famous pick up artist Swinggcat claims that every male/female interaction has what he calls a “Meta-Frame.” The Meta-Frame is the subtext or underlying meaning of the interaction. It defines one person as the Prize and the other as the suitor trying to win the Prize over.

More often than not, attractive girls will try to set a Meta-Frame that defines them as the Prize and you as the chaser.

Is there anything wrong with letting a woman be the Prize?

Good question. I thought you’d never ask.

If you let a woman control the meta-frame, any attraction she felt will abate to zero.

One amongst a myriad of ways women attempt to control the Meta-Frame is disrespecting a man.

Swinggcat taught me a great technique for responding to a woman’s rude behavior.

When a woman says or does something rude, demand, “Put out your hand.”

Then lightly slap her hand and say, “Bad girl, but if you’re good, you get a spanking.”

This puts you back in control of the Meta-Frame, making you the Prize she wants to win over. But more importantly, it turns being spanked by you from a punishment into a reward she has to earn.

Many men think that attraction is based on looks. That’s only true if you have no game. However, if you possess the skill to attract women, you can author your own destiny with the opposite sex. If you’d like to learn how to attract women, I highly recommend you check out the dating expert Swinggcat.

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Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”

Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.

He scurried off with the imperative of a gazelle that knows it’s minutes away from becoming a lion’s dinner.

Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.

If you don’t know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.

Here’s the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone – and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.

Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they’ll still think you’re interested.

Keep reading because this is about to change…

Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.

Even if he’s a fighter, it’s too late – he’s already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he’s got a shot at success).

Like other men, I’m also a fish – but a Parana jacked up on steroids. The moment they think they’ve hooked me in, I cast my pole and tempt them with irresistible bait.

They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.

Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.

Next, I’ll complain, “Ow… you hurt me.”

Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”

I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”

This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.

Once most guys find a woman attractive – usually within the first few seconds of meeting her – they start thinking of ways to get her approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her.

She’s got them on her emotional hook (and she’s well aware of it.) Any effort on their part to win her over is a bad sign she’s reeled them in even closer.

In the example I gave you, I did the opposite: Instead of trying to impress her, I made her prove herself to me.

In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given time. Two people can’t simultaneously chase each other.

There are exceptions but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying to win over.

Josh Lubens, a world famous relationship expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over a decade. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.

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We have all had it happen…

You are attracted to a woman.

But there’s a problem…

She isn’t physically attracted to you.

Is there anything you can do about it or are you out of luck?

Most dating experts will tell you, “If a woman isn’t physically attracted to you, move on.”

Do not do this. You’re cutting yourself short.

Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her.

Today I’m going to teach you one of them. It comes from the dating coach Swinggcat and is called a “Tension Loop”

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.

Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized.

A powerful Tension Loop Swinggcat uses a lot is called “Push-Pull.”

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a female away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in.

Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it.

Let’s look at an example of Push-Pull.

Compliment a woman with, “You have the most stunning smile I’ve seen tonight.”

She will say, “Thanks.”

Then say, “Actually you have the fourth best smile I’ve seen tonight. I’m gonna call you number four.”

She’ll demand, “I wanna be number one.”

Respond with, “Because you’re feisty, you just moved up to # 3.”

She may carp, “I want to be number one.”

Caution, “If you keep complaining I’m demoting you back down to number four.

If you want to learn more Seduction Tips, I suggest visiting Swinggcat. The man is a true master of Seduction.

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To succeed with women at bars and nightclubs, every heterosexual man must get past an obstacle. Alas, he may not be aware of it.

Attractive women are almost never at bars alone. Instead, they’re surrounded by an army of people.

You may approach a sexy girl with ease. But if you don’t know how to woo her friend, they’ll drag her away from you.

Here’s a painless way to get inside her social circle…

Ask her group of friends for their opinion on something.

If you do this right you’ll engage all of her friends in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here’s an example that comes from Neil Strauss

Say to the group, “Guys… I want a quick opinion on something.” When you get their attention say, “Who do you think lies more – men or women?”

This should get everyone talking.

Then ask, “Who do you think is more likely to cheat – married men or married women?”

Her male friend will averse, “Women.” Her girlfriends will disagree and say, “Men.”

This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?

You become the leader amongst her friends. Hence, you can take the conversation in any direction you want.

You’ve infiltrated her social circle. If you hit on the girl, her friend will no longer care.

Another important point: your energy level needs to be slightly higher than the group. Otherwise, you’ll bring down their energy level and they’ll get bored silly.

Likewise, if your energy level is too high, you’ll jar them.

Either way, they’ll ask you to leave.

Here’s your homework: Conjure up five interesting questions you can ask groups of people. These are your conversational gambits.

The next time you’re at a bar and spot a girl you’d like to meet, approach her social circle with one of these questions. I think you’ll be surprised how well it works.

Have you ever gone to a bar, spotted a girl you’d like to meet but didn’t know what to say? The collective male has suffered many a time from this predicament. If you’d like to learn how to pick up women in bars then go here to learn how to pick up women . You’ll thank me later.

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