May 10
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How To Pick Up Women
Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”
Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.
He scurried off with the imperative of a gazelle that knows it’s minutes away from becoming a lion’s dinner.
Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.
If you don’t know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.
Here’s the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone – and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they’ll still think you’re interested.
Keep reading because this is about to change…
Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he’s a fighter, it’s too late – he’s already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he’s got a shot at success).
Like other men, I’m also a fish – but a Parana jacked up on steroids. The moment they think they’ve hooked me in, I cast my pole and tempt them with irresistible bait.
They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.
Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.
Next, I’ll complain, “Ow… you hurt me.”
Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”
I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
Once most guys find a woman attractive – usually within the first few seconds of meeting her – they start thinking of ways to get her approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her.
She’s got them on her emotional hook (and she’s well aware of it.) Any effort on their part to win her over is a bad sign she’s reeled them in even closer.
In the example I gave you, I did the opposite: Instead of trying to impress her, I made her prove herself to me.
In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given time. Two people can’t simultaneously chase each other.
There are exceptions but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying to win over.
Josh Lubens, a world famous relationship expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over a decade. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
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